Technology as it relates to Domestic Violence.
It is important to remember that computer technology
can put your privacy and safety at risk. Computer hard drives are
capable of recording every action taken on the computer and Internet,
and it is virtually impossible to completely erase these "foot prints".
Even if your abuser is not an expert at computers, he may be able to
trace what you have done on the computer or can easily find someone
who can. If you think you may be monitored on your home computer,
it may be safer for you to stop using that computer. Computers
that are located in a public library, community technology center,
Internet cafe or at a trusted friend's house may be safer options
if you wish to use e-mail or browse the Internet.
Other precautions you can take include the following:
Never
share your e-mail password(s). However, if you believe your abuser
knows your password, before changing it, consider
whether that may
cause more danger by arousing suspicion.
Passwords should be difficult to figure out.
Never use birth dates, street addresses, names etc.
Consider having more than
one e-mail account so that you have an alternative if your abuser
forces you to close an account.
Ask friends and family to not share your new e-mail
addresses.
Never
register your personal information such as your real address or
phone number when you sign up for web e-mail
accounts such as Yahoo
or Hotmail.
Computers can also be a useful tool in accessing information about
what you are going through and what you can do to seek help.
However, keep in mind that some domestic violence websites are
not legitimate and may give you misleading information. Your local
domestic violence advocate can help sort out any information that
may be confusing. Finally, e-mails from your abuser can provide
excellent evidence in a court case. You might want to consider s
aving his e-mails even if you don't have a case pending, so they
are available if you ever need them.
Telephone Privacy & Safety
Telephone technologies, such as Caller ID, mean you should think about
steps you can take to prevent your abuser from knowing who you call
or who calls you. In addition, it can help to know how to use these
same technologies to help you plan for your safety.
If you live with your abuser, and your telephone has a Caller ID
box, your abuser can track who has called you. If you live separately
from your abuser, you can use Caller ID to make sure the caller is
someone you want to speak to, before answering the telephone. If you
have Caller ID, you can also get Anonymous Call Rejection Service.
This service prevents an incoming call from ringing at your home if
the caller has used Per-Call or All-Call Blocking to stop display of
their number on your Caller ID box. The caller will reach a recorded
message saying that the call will not be accepted unless the block is
removed.
Call Return Service (*69) allows you to call back the last number that
called you, whether or not you answered the call. In some areas,
a recording will give you the number you are attempting to call
back, even long distance numbers. However, if the last call you
received was from someone you don't want your abuser to know about,
you can press *89 after you end the call. This will prevent Call
Return from working.
The re-dial button on your telephone also allows
your abuser to call the last number you dialed, without knowing the
number. Since most domestic violence programs answer their telephone
by saying the name of their program, your abuser could learn that you
are reaching out for help. Therefore, after hanging up from such a
call, you may want to dial the telephone number for weather or some
other "safe" number.
Call Trace Service traces the number of an annoying,
obscene or harassing call by dialing *57. If your trace is successful,
your telephone company will provide the number to the police. You must
file a complaint with the police and call your telephone company to
request an investigation.
There is a fee for purchasing the Caller
ID service and a fee for using the Call Return and Call Trace. More
complete information about these and other services is available in
the front of your telephone book or by calling your local telephone
company.
An answering machine is another good way to make sure the
caller is someone you want to speak to, before answering the telephone.
If your abuser leaves a threatening message on the answering machine,
be sure to remove the tape and save it (do not record over it).
Such recordings can be used as evidence of threats and stalking.
If you use a cell phone, be aware there are numerous ways an abuser
can use cell phone technology to overhear your calls or locate you.
Use a cell phone only if you do not have access to a regular phone,
and make sure that you do not give any identifying details on a cell
phone. If your abuser works for a phone company or law enforcement
agency, use extreme precaution, and discuss cell phone safety with
a domestic violence advocate.
A cellular phone in "silent mode" or
"auto answer" can serve as a tracking device. Some recent models of
cellular phones have GPS (Global Positioning System), which is a
location-finding feature. You can check with your phone company to
learn if your cell phone has this feature. If you are fleeing from
your abuser, either turn off your cell phone or leave it behind.
For more information regarding creating a
Safety Plan or if you
Need Help please contact
the Coalition:
NYSCADV
350 New Scotland Avenue
Albany New York, 12208
Phone: 518-482-5465
Fax: 518-482-3807
Email:
nyscadv@nyscadv.org
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